The gender binary is toxic for all of us. In healthy masculinity work, we talk about how we have a vast range of masculinities. Plural. That every man brings a distinctive interpretation of masculinity based on the vast range of intersectional influences and contexts that inform how we construct our identities Man Box culture wants us all to march…

Being hypocritical is the how GOP authoritarian leaders compete to signal their personal power. — Being openly and repeatedly, hypocritical is how MAGA leaders like Trump signal their dominance and power. In the GOP’s increasingly authoritarian political climate, no MAGA leader can be successful without intentionally signaling their hypocrisy continuously. Elon Musk displays power to his white supremacist followers by performing his hypocrisy daily on…

#NotAllMen is the marker of men’s isolation and disconnection — The silence of the majority of men about our collective impact on girls and women allows generations old abusive patriarchal systems to remain in place. Even though many men don’t support the extremist actions of the most abusive men who openly attack women politically, economically, and physically, boy do we…

“Greene creates a villian for the ages. Fast-moving and spellbinding.” -Amazon reviewer — I have just published my first work of fiction. It’s paranormal fiction, a ghost tale. I’m happy to report that reviews are coming back very strong. Below is chapter one of Dance of the Hanged Man, my tale of five boys struggling to survive a supernatural event in the dark…

Women are the biggest threat to American extremists. — My deep sympathy to the friends and family of Laura Ann Carleton who was murdered for flying a rainbow flag in front of her California business. I continue to be shocked and angered by her death. Her courage and moral clarity will not be forgotten. It should not be lost…

Barbie the movie is changing the world. It’s happening right now. — I have spent years in the trenches of social media, battling all manner of MRA, incels, and other masculinity extremists. It is an art form to respond in ways that are effective. I’m here to tell you that Barbie the movie is the most powerful act of gender aikido that…

There’s only one sure way to spot patriarchy in all its guises throughout history and across the world. Patriarchal, dominance-based masculine culture is ruthlessly flexible and adaptive to context, weaponizing any local cultural, racial, religious bias it can use to accrue power over men, women, LGBTQI people, POC. This is why dominance-based masculine culture dovetails so seamlessly with white supremacy in the West, while just as easily aligning…

The majority of men remain silent while extremists criminalize abortion. Countless men have directly benefited from abortion. Few say so. My partner chose to get an abortion when I was a young man. I supported her in making that decision and I benefited from that choice. Other men who are willing to share how they benefited from abortion, please do. …

What else are we to conclude? — Yeah, I get uncomfortable in a #NotAllMen way when I hear that. ….yeah… But given all the stuff going on including abortion bans, death rates for pregnant women in the US, domestic violence, femicide globally and so horribly much more. Guys? What else are we to conclude? Bros. If the…