Barbie: Hot Damn I Love This Movie!
Barbie the movie is changing the world. It’s happening right now.
I have spent years in the trenches of social media, battling all manner of MRA, incels, and other masculinity extremists. It is an art form to respond in ways that are effective. I’m here to tell you that Barbie the movie is the most powerful act of gender aikido that I have EVER seen on film, or anywhere else.
Put simply, Barbie flips gender privilege as a driver for men’s, (women’s and non binary folks’) self-reflection. →Male viewers feeling like men are second class citizens in Barbieland? Oh, I get it. I felt it myself watching the movie.
“Imagine real life being like that every day… Oh, wait.”
The central tenet of the film is that once we name the mad litany of contradictions inherent in patriarchal “never good enough” roles for women… once the words are spoken clearly, women will snap out of the trance of patriarchy. America Ferrera’s “It is literally impossible to be a woman” speech is transformational. I firmly believe many men who are seeing this speech will be snapping out of it, too.
For decades, MRA, MGTOWs, incels and a whole host of other manosphere extremists have sought to dogpile on, erase, dismiss, and demonize the word patriarchy wherever it showed up…
