Thanks for this, Louis. Much of your story sounds like mine. For me, the solution was to find a group of men who were willing to support my work to change. You’re right in saying that women are not obligated to help men make this shift. Some women are willing to accompany us in our work while others find the shift we are seeking to make uncomfortable. For me, the Mankind Project was one place where I could find men who would help me face my own trauma and heal. It is my belief that men need the help of both women and other men in order to do this work. Thanks for your comments.

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